The way your body develops and the way you feel and respond toward others in a sexual way make up your sexuality. Your sexual orientation determines who you are sexually attracted to. While some people are attracted to the opposite sex (heterosexual/straight), others are attracted to people from the same sex (homosexual/gay or lesbian) or both sexes (bisexual).
- You can't choose your sexual orientation, just like you can't choose who you fall in love with
- Although sexual orientation is important, it is only a part of what makes up a whole person. No matter what your sexual orientation, you deserve to be accepted and treated with respect
- While some young people are certain whether they are gay, lesbian, bisexual or straight, others aren't so sure. It is normal to feel confused about sexual attraction and it can take a while to know your sexual orientation
- If you are feeling worried or unsure, be patient and trust your feelings. Accept that your sexual feelings toward others may change as you begin dating and having relationships, but eventually, you'll know what feels right
If you are feeling anxious or worried about sex or your sexuality, you don't have to keep it to yourself. There are a number of websites and contacts where you can get in touch with someone to ask questions and talk about any concerns you have, without having to give your name.
